If you’re partying with us this holiday season, you should read this… http://www.differentdream.com/2012/12/5-holiday-party-tips-to-welcome-kids-with-special-needs/

I’d like to add a bit to tip #5.  In the two and half years that Sofija has been a part of our family we have declined several invitations or accepted invitations and then missed the party because we were in the middle of dealing with a meltdown.  Everyone in our house thrives on social interaction and community.  Just because we are not able to show up for a party or event does not in any way mean that we do not want to be there.  So PLEASE keep inviting us!  And if we do not make it, say a prayer for us.  We need it.